Foster care is not about fixing the child, say Victoria residents Leo and Karyn Cooper, it is about providing love and support.

It is a big misconception that people who want to be foster parents often have, they said, and one that can be detrimental to both themselves and the child.

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It was a very proud moment for the family that brought a fair amount of tears for how far their children have come. The Coopers prioritize ensuring the foster children in their family are precisely that: part of the family.

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Fostering teenagers is not a one-size-fits-all approach and will require different planning for various children, as everyone is unique, he said.

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Some have gone to college and gotten degrees, and some have just narrowly avoided going to jail, she said. These are massive accomplishments that make the Coopers feel proud.

A stable house is one of the most important things a family like the Coopers can provide to the children who come to live with them, they say.

Foster Family Month is celebrated in October to honour families like the Coopers who provide care, according to Dan Malone, executive director of Foster Parent Support Services Society, which is located right in Langford.

There is a desperate need for more families to provide care, Malone said, as some long-serving people are retiring.

The province has also increased the amount of money these families receive, but the money is not why people offer care, he said.

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An increase in compensation given to families who foster children will help to cover the associated costs of caring for young people, said B.C. Minister of Children and Family Development Mitzi Dean.

The increase was the second boost for families that the provincial government has given in just 10 years, said Dean.

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Payments for families increased for people caring for a child 11 years and under from $450 a month to $1,465 per child, and children from 12 to 19 years old saw a rise from $513 to $1,655.

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It has been a gratifying and sometimes challenging experience, but the benefits far outweigh the negatives, they say.

The Coopers have seen foster families get burned out when providing care, and the most significant piece of advice they can give is not to do it alone.

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The Coopers have personally experienced the positive impact of fostering and see the long-term benefits these children have with having a stable home.

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