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B.C. funerals: 㽶ƵֱEveryone is going to die, and they need to plan for that㽶Ƶֱ

Most people don㽶Ƶֱt make funeral pre-arrangements, and they should, B.C. funeral directors say

We㽶Ƶֱre all going to die, but most of us aren㽶Ƶֱt preparing for it.

And that can mean a difficult time for loved ones, who are left scrambling to figure out what needs to be done when there no pre-arrangements made.

It can be anxiety-producing for many people, observed Shawn Carbonell, family service planner at Bakerview Memorial Cemetery in Aldergrove, who said fear can keep people from making funeral preparations in advance.

㽶ƵֱA lot of people feel like if they make the plans, then they㽶Ƶֱre gonna die faster, right? It㽶Ƶֱs just not true, but I feel like a lot of people have that idea. It㽶Ƶֱs either, they fully see the benefits, or they㽶Ƶֱre terrified to death.㽶Ƶֱ

Jeremy May, owner of in Langley City, described pre-planning as 㽶Ƶֱthe one decision that people want to defer the most, either to avoid it, or leave it to others.㽶Ƶֱ

May points to figures showing roughly 8,000 people die every day in North America, with only 2,000 of them having made prearrangements.

㽶ƵֱThe other 6,000 a day, it㽶Ƶֱs a mess,㽶Ƶֱ May commented.

Carbonell said it can be overwhelming for survivors if no pre-arrangements have been made.

㽶ƵֱWhen a death occurs, the cemetery and funeral home are going to ask so many questions,㽶Ƶֱ Carbonell warned.

㽶ƵֱLike what㽶Ƶֱs your SIN number? Where㽶Ƶֱs the deed to the home? How many bank accounts? And they㽶Ƶֱre all going to ask that on the day of the death. Some people, you know, they can㽶Ƶֱt think of all of these things. They don㽶Ƶֱt know where anything is, and it takes a long time.㽶Ƶֱ

May said when overwhelmed survivors 㽶Ƶֱhave to start making decisions on the spot at two in the morning, you can make ones that are hasty, that maybe don㽶Ƶֱt reflect the wishes of the deceased, and they can be costly.㽶Ƶֱ

Prearranging does two things, May explained.

㽶ƵֱIt allows you to put your wishes down on paper, to let them be known, and it allows you to freeze or lock in the cost.㽶Ƶֱ

The moment you leave a deposit, he said, the prices for both burial plots and funeral services are locked in.

That is not a small concern, he noted, with funeral prices rising, on average, 10 per cent a year.

A cemetery plot that cost about $750 when May started in the industry in 1993, is now going for more like $80,000, he estimates, and funeral prices are rising, on average, 10 per cent a year.

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Carbonnell said when people make pre-arrangements, they always feel better.

㽶ƵֱI㽶Ƶֱve never helped a family where they felt bad for making these arrangements,㽶Ƶֱ he said.

㽶ƵֱThey㽶Ƶֱve always obviously been a little bit scared to make the arrangements, but when it㽶Ƶֱs all said and done, and finalized, there㽶Ƶֱs just a big sigh of relief and they㽶Ƶֱre happy.㽶Ƶֱ

㽶ƵֱAt the end of the day, it㽶Ƶֱs a very simple concept,㽶Ƶֱ May said.

㽶ƵֱEveryone is going to die, and they need to plan for that. It㽶Ƶֱs 100-per-cent inevitable, you can㽶Ƶֱt avoid it.㽶Ƶֱ

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