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Before his death, B.C.香蕉视频直播檚 Keven Drews learned real meaning of life

Even while preparing for the inevitable end, something inside Keven Drews didn香蕉视频直播檛 let him stop living
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Surrey香蕉视频直播檚 Keven Drews doesn香蕉视频直播檛 know how much time he has left, but he knows how we wants to use it. (Photo submitted)

EDITOR香蕉视频直播橲 NOTE (May 3, 2018): Keven Drews has died after a lengthy battle with cancer.

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KEVEN DREWS ANSWERED the phone a little out of breath.

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Keven was expecting my call.

I hear music playing in the background and if you didn香蕉视频直播檛 know any better, you would get the impression that he was pulled away from mundane household chores, like doing laundry or sweeping out the garage.

Keven was indeed 香蕉视频直播渢idying things up香蕉视频直播 around his Rosemary Heights home on this dreary Thursday morning.

But the kind of tidying up he was doing was anything but mundane.

The 45-year-old former journalist was rounding up all his photos 香蕉视频直播 thousands of them 香蕉视频直播 putting them all in one place so his wife and children will have them when he is gone.

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That is the Keven Drews I know, I think to myself 香蕉视频直播 always doing things to the best of his ability.

Even when preparing to die.

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In the early 2000s, we were just coming from different places. But we worked together at the now defunct Nanaimo Daily News and we bonded over the many shared experiences and challenges that came with working the night desk. Plus, having a gruff, no-nonsense editor straight out of the whiskey-in-your-desk 香蕉视频直播60s also gave us plenty to vent about.

Keven Drews and his wife Yvette. (Photo submitted)

Music also connected us. Keven knew tons about music, and I was a budding guitar player. In fact, our friendship was cemented when Keven香蕉视频直播檚 talented wife Yvette 香蕉视频直播 now a Surrey school teacher 香蕉视频直播 joined me at the front of a small martini bar in Nanaimo for a three-song acoustic set.

It was my first time playing guitar in public and I remember Keven pushing us to be the best we could be as we rehearsed those three songs again and again.

Anything worth doing is worth doing right. That was the Keven I knew in Nanaimo 香蕉视频直播 it was his mantra about journalism, music, relationships, and life in general.

Later that year, his life changed forever 香蕉视频直播 and I was with him when it happened.

We were surfing on Long Beach in Tofino, on the west coast of Vancouver Island, when Keven suddenly screamed out in pain, clutching at his chest and ribs.

香蕉视频直播淚t was like being stabbed in the back with a blunt knife,香蕉视频直播 he said later.

He went to the emergency room but doctors simply thought it was a slipped disc or he had done something to his back out in the surf.

An MRI in 2003 revealed the unthinkable. He had multiple myeloma 香蕉视频直播 cancer of the plasma cells.

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CANCER.

The word shocked him.

香蕉视频直播淚t really felt like I was disassociated from my body,香蕉视频直播 Keven says. 香蕉视频直播淚 felt like I was not there, like it was a movie. Just a complete loss of control over yourself. I don香蕉视频直播檛 mean crying, you just get this sense, what just happened? This force has come into my life and I was just numb.香蕉视频直播

And multiple myeloma?

That type of cancer typically attacks people in their 50s, 60s and 70s.

Regardless, what the disease had in store for Keven was excruciating pain 香蕉视频直播 14 years of it.

It香蕉视频直播檚 a disease that starts in the marrow and essentially 香蕉视频直播渂reaks and buckles bone from the inside,香蕉视频直播 as he puts it (at one point, his vertebrae actually came apart).

While it香蕉视频直播檚 not clear what causes multiple myeloma, doctors do know that it begins with one abnormal plasma cell in your bone marrow 香蕉视频直播 the soft, blood-producing tissue that fills in the centre of most of your bones. The abnormal cell multiplies uncontrollably and make more abnormal plasma cells, according to the Canadian Cancer Society. This makes it hard for other blood cells in the bone marrow to develop and work normally.

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Since being diagnosed, Keven has undergone a stem cell transplant as well as multiple rounds of chemotherapy and radiation treatments. After multiple relapses, Keven and his family started raising money near the end of 2017 to send him to a clinical trial based in Seattle.

The trial develops what香蕉视频直播檚 called 香蕉视频直播淐AR T香蕉视频直播 cell therapy. Medical staff would remove from his body and then re-engineer in a lab T cells, the immune system香蕉视频直播檚 killer cells, before infusing them back into his blood stream to attack the cancer.

It was his last chance.

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But it wasn香蕉视频直播檛 a sure thing. He would have to be accepted 香蕉视频直播 and come up with about $675,000.

No problem. After all, this is Keven Drews we香蕉视频直播檙e talking about, a guy who is using his cancer to teach his two kids a lesson in resilience, about what it means to fight for your life.

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A GoFundMe page was set up and the money started coming in. A Facebook page, YouTube channel and Twitter account were launched. A fundraiser on Vancouver Island was organized.

As the funds started building, so did his family香蕉视频直播檚 hope.

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香蕉视频直播淣O CLINICAL TRIAL,香蕉视频直播 read the ominous header on one of Keven香蕉视频直播檚 Facebook posts in early January.

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In a heart-breaking turn of events, Keven香蕉视频直播檚 out-of-whack calcium and creatinine levels were enough to disqualify him.

香蕉视频直播淭hat means there is nothing left, except for some minor medications, to hold the cancer back, and I am running out of time.香蕉视频直播

Looking back, his voice brims with pride over the phone as he recounts all he has achieved, despite everything life has thrown at him.

香蕉视频直播淚n 2003, it was death or a transplant, those were the options,香蕉视频直播 he says. 香蕉视频直播淎nd in those 14 years, I have accomplished a lot. I have no regrets香蕉视频直播 I didn香蕉视频直播檛 waste any time. I had a business going, I did my Masters in creative writing, I had two kids, a wonderful wife.

香蕉视频直播淭here is a lot more I want to accomplish but it香蕉视频直播檚 not gonna happen,香蕉视频直播 he adds, his voice lowering.

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KEVEN DREWS has always loved writing 香蕉视频直播 and he香蕉视频直播檚 done a lot of it.

After attending school in Surrey, he graduated from UBC and earned a post-degree certificate in journalism from Langara College.

Over his career, he has worked at newspapers in B.C. and Washington state. Most recently, he worked with Canadian Press.

He even completed an MFA in creative non-fiction at Pacific Lutheran University in Tacoma, Wash. while undergoing chemo.

These days, he has been putting the finishing touches on his latest personal essay he titled, 香蕉视频直播淔ourteen Years of Pain.香蕉视频直播

He also reads. A lot.

But there香蕉视频直播檚 a problem.

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That香蕉视频直播檚 why every day Keven spends with his wife and two boys is immeasurable.

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By now, you may be wondering 香蕉视频直播 as I was 香蕉视频直播 how does Keven keep it all together? After all, Keven has seen people in his situation simply give up and die when their will was gone.

What is it that gives him such strength?

香蕉视频直播淚 seem to have this internal drive that you have probably seen in my life, going back to Nanaimo, that just pushes me continually forward,香蕉视频直播 he says.

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The Drews family: Keven, Tristan, Yvette and Elleree. (Photo submitted)

He also watches movies 香蕉视频直播 comedies, of course.

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Finally, Keven shares some advice for people whose lives are being rocked by cancer.

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We end our interview by making plans for coffee 香蕉视频直播 it turns out their new place is just up the road from the Now-Leader office.

But we had better do it quickly, he adds in an ominous tone.

I start saying my goodbyes with a heavy soul.

But somehow, I also feel uplifted. Maybe it is because Keven reminded me of the importance of family 香蕉视频直播 and just how minute some of our day-to-day problems really are in the grand scheme of things.

I also feel inspired, knowing that his story is sure to encourage thousands of people, whether they香蕉视频直播檝e just begun their battle with cancer or are near their journey香蕉视频直播檚 end.

Before I hang up, I thank Keven for his honesty and tell him I admire his strength of character.

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