Lending a hand to an ailing neighbour or friend is something many of us do, with no expectation of remuneration. An elderly neighbour who is living alone and has no family that live in town, may tug at your heartstrings.
You may wish to help. The Good Samaritan in you, rising to the surface, you may feel a sense of pride and a maternal/paternal instinct towards the person that you may have known for some time, during their better days perhaps.
My intention is not to discourage you from helping these people. Far from it. If you can be of assistance in any way, then you should be. Society will certainly be indebted to you for your time and kindness.
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This is not a position that anyone wants to be in. After lending a hand, you are suddenly the accused.
If you or someone you know is in this position, firstly, thank you for helping out, you are an asset to our community.
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These are all good reasons to properly plan for your potential future incapability by appointing people you trust to handle your financial/legal and health matters.
