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B.C. couple who has raised 58 children turns to community amid cancer diagnosis

Family who raised, fostered and adopted many kids hoping to gain some precious together time to fight cancer
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A small part of the Moore family, with Stacey and Cary in the centre. Cary is holding Maggie, who they香蕉视频直播檝e adopted. Their biological daughters, Cassie and and Amara and their adopted son, Billy. (Candace Fast photo)

Stacey and Cary Moore are big on family. Really big.

The Chilliwack couple has raised an impressive 58 children over several decades, between their two biological daughters, Amara and Cassie, foster children, and those they香蕉视频直播檝e adopted. It香蕉视频直播檚 a jaw-dropping number, and some have been with them longer than others 香蕉视频直播 but they can recall every single one of them.

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But now, that happy, busy lifestyle has been slowed almost to a halt.

Earlier this year, Stacey was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a form of bone cancer. Cancer cells have been found in high concentration in her bone marrow, and she香蕉视频直播檚 currently undergoing treatment to extend her lifespan.

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She is in chemotherapy treatments these days, and stem cell therapy will happen later this year.

Whatever comes in the next few months, they want to get through it as a family. And that香蕉视频直播檚 going to mean Cary stays off work as a flight attendant. It香蕉视频直播檚 a change that香蕉视频直播檚 going to cut deep into their finances for that loss of income and benefit coverage.

And while initially he didn香蕉视频直播檛 want to ask the community for donations, the reality of the level of care needed in their home began to sink in. They are a Level 2 foster care home through the Ministry of Families and Children, with training requirements for themselves and any caregivers they bring in.

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They have done so much for Chilliwack香蕉视频直播檚 children, that their church and family and friends urged them to go along with a GoFundMe fundraiser. Cary has already been off work a lot through their cancer journey.

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It wasn香蕉视频直播檛 long before they were whisked into the world of cancer care. They remain hopeful, and as Christians are using their faith for strength and courage.

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They started fostering in 1990, the same year they married. It was an easy life choice for Cary, who was raised by his parents in a very similar household.

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In addition to the GoFundMe page, Cary has been keeping a regular blog of their medical updates on a private Facebook page. They are sharing photos, stories, hopes and fears. They香蕉视频直播檙e teaching people about multiple myeloma, which isn香蕉视频直播檛 genetic and is generally a cancer that older people get.

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Their GoFundMe account is called. As of Saturday afternoon $14,000 of the $50,000 goal had been raised.

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