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Too much to do, too many changes happening, too many decisions to make.

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Our physical reaction is often the first to be noticed. Uncertainty can push us into a fight or flight response.

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It initiates an automatic response to fear for our safety that increases our blood pressure and pulse, tightens our muscles in response to a perceived threat to our well-being, and fires adrenalin and cortisol through our body like the burning fire of a rocket launch.

If this continues for any length of time, it begins to affect our sleep.

Before we know it, life seems too much to handle and our mind loses its ability to think clearly and take effective action.

As we go through the aging journey, transitions seem to be on a more frequent visitation schedule. The stress of uncertainty can begin to take up permanent residence within us.

But what is it we are really afraid of?

In 2011, the first baby boomers began their foray into the over 65 journey.

It is not often until you are actually experiencing something yourself, you truly begin to know what something feels like.

Surely, as any new parent can attest, we found this out for ourselves.

It was always so much easier to evaluate what other new parents should be doing compared to actually figuring out how to deal with your own baby.

If parenting was about uncertainty and new learning, I believe the third chapter of life takes that up even a higher notch.

The uncertainty that we experience is about our physical and cognitive capacities that require a shift from independence to interdependence in a big way.

Sensing my own response to clients facing the challenging adjustments to changing physical and mental abilities as they enter their later 80s and early 90s, when I stop to be still, I know that I fear what the future will bring for myself.

I am sure that many of us, if we allow ourselves to really embrace our fear recognize how it brings the unknown path of aging into more reality with each passing year.

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Baby boomers may have their own unique path of facing the adjustments of growing older due to the trajectory of how we have lived our middle years.

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