The legacy of Pte. Colin William Wilmot has been woven into the fabric of Canadian history thanks, in part, to friend Matthew Heneghan.
Almost 16 years have passed since Wilmot was killed by an explosive device while in service with the Canadian Armed Forces香蕉视频直播� 1 Field Ambulance Unit in Kandahar, Afghanistan. Yet memories of Wilmot are still vivid in the mind of Falkland-based author and Salmon Arm Secondary grad, Matthew Heneghan, who shares the story of his friendship with Wilmot in his latest book, Woven in War.
Described as a tribute to Wilmot, the book chronicles the 13-year journey an Edmonton Oilers shirt that belonged to him, from his former bunk in Kandahar to Heneghan香蕉视频直播檚 North Okanagan home.
Since its release on April 20, the book has topped several categories on Amazon, including #1 in Canadian Military History. But Heneghan stressed the book will appeal to more than military buffs.
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That pain is something Heneghan has been working on since he first learned Wilmot had been killed in service. The two bonded while training in the same unit at the Edmonton Canadian Forces base. Wilmot deployed in 2008, while Heneghan stayed behind for personal reasons.
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Woven in War was written by Heneghan with Philip Hunter, a veteran who, in his deployment to Afghanistan wound up being assigned to Wilmot香蕉视频直播檚 bunk.
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Hunter happened to read the book and, after holding onto the shirt for 13 years, finally knew who it should go to. In 2021, around Christmas, Heneghan would receive an unexpected package in the mail.
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Heneghan wrote a short story about the experience, which received national attention, and the shirt wound up finding a new home in the Canadian War Museum. But Heneghan felt the story was not yet finished.
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After writing his part of the story, Heneghan香蕉视频直播檚 publisher reached out to Hunter who, while deployed, had been writing letters to his wife almost daily.
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The process of writing and releasing the book has been another step in Heneghan香蕉视频直播檚 own journey of healing. His hope is that others on a similar journey might find a helpful connection in the book.
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Released by Wintertickle Press, Woven in War is now available in paperback and for Kindle. Heneghan is looking forward to a book signing, possibly in June, at Bookingham Palace at the Mall at Piccadilly.
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