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In new memoir, Tom Selleck looks back at the hard years that made him a star in 㽶ƵֱMagnum, P.I.㽶Ƶֱ

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FILE - Actor Tom Selleck arrives at the 15th Annual Entertainment Industry Foundation Revlon Run/Walk For Women in Los Angeles on Saturday, May 10, 2008. (AP Photo/Dan Steinberg, File)

starts his memoir in the middle of a car crash. He is 17 and in the passenger seat when he and two friends go airborne in his mom㽶Ƶֱs red Chevy Corvair, tumbling off Mulholland Drive in Los Angeles. Everyone would be eventually fine, but it㽶Ƶֱs a harrowing moment and a unique way to kick off a look back.

㽶ƵֱThat㽶Ƶֱs an unusual way to start,㽶Ƶֱ the 㽶ƵֱMagnum, P.I.㽶Ƶֱ and 㽶ƵֱBlue Bloods㽶Ƶֱ star admits in an interview. 㽶ƵֱIt seemed like the perfect way to go back a little bit and talk about my upbringing through the bad accident and the ramifications.㽶Ƶֱ

㽶ƵֱYou Never Know㽶Ƶֱ takes readers through Selleck㽶Ƶֱs years at the University of Southern California, in the Army, being bachelor No. 2 on 㽶ƵֱThe Dating Game㽶Ƶֱ and small roles and commercials before earning an Emmy and lasting fame as Thomas Magnum.

㽶ƵֱI didn㽶Ƶֱt have one of those headline-grabbing lives,㽶Ƶֱ the 79-year-old actor tells The Associated Press. 㽶ƵֱThe only way I could make the book entertaining 㽶Ƶֱ and I think my primary job and goal in this book is to entertain 㽶Ƶֱ was to get into these stories in a way that the reader got inside my head.㽶Ƶֱ

Selleck spent four years writing the book longhand on yellow legal pads, quoting from George Will and Raymond Chandler along the way. He would write in the afternoon and read what he㽶Ƶֱd written to his wife at dinner.

The self-portrait that emerges is of an actor who put his head down and worked at his craft 㽶Ƶֱ he did six unsold pilots and his first big movie was in the unfortunate 㽶ƵֱDaughters of Satan㽶Ƶֱ 㽶Ƶֱ until hitting the big time in his mid-30s.

㽶ƵֱIf Selleck has one thing to sell its authenticity,㽶Ƶֱ says 㽶ƵֱHe is a guy who knows who he is. He has managed to make a very successful career in a rough business over many decades by finding a way to be himself.㽶Ƶֱ

Selleck says he had no intentions of writing a tell-all or sharing salacious details of his life, though he does reveal details about his secret marriage to his second wife, Jillie Mack, who he first spotted onstage in 㽶ƵֱCats.㽶Ƶֱ (Yes, he fell in love with Rumpleteazer.)

㽶ƵֱThere㽶Ƶֱs plenty of stuff I have not talked, about and there㽶Ƶֱs plenty of stuff that everybody else has talked about and it isn㽶Ƶֱt really accurate,㽶Ƶֱ he says.

Readers will learn that Selleck 㽶Ƶֱ known for his 6-foot-4 matinee-idol looks and build, sense of humor and effortless style 㽶Ƶֱ was often racked by insecurity and doubts, writing, 㽶ƵֱThat critic on your shoulder is a formidable opponent.㽶Ƶֱ

㽶ƵֱI wanted to speak the language of our business to young actors,㽶Ƶֱ he says. 㽶ƵֱIt㽶Ƶֱs not an easy road. The product you㽶Ƶֱre selling 㽶Ƶֱ when somebody says no, which is 99% of the time 㽶Ƶֱ is you.㽶Ƶֱ

Famously, his shooting schedule for 㽶ƵֱMagnum, P.I.㽶Ƶֱ forced him to decline an offer to play Indiana Jones in 㽶ƵֱRaiders of the Lost Ark,㽶Ƶֱ a part which went to A Hollywood strike actually made it possible to do both, but Selleck is at peace, writing 㽶Ƶֱmy only regret was that the what-if was there from time to time.㽶Ƶֱ

The role of Magnum 㽶Ƶֱ a Vietnam war veteran-turned easygoing detective who zipped around Hawaii in a red Ferrari 㽶Ƶֱ aired from 1980-1988.

Selleck earned an Emmy in 1984 for the episode 㽶ƵֱHome from the Sea,㽶Ƶֱ in which Magnum treads water alone in the Pacific Ocean until he is rescued, talking to figures in his past. 㽶ƵֱI made it, Dad. Why didn㽶Ƶֱt you?,㽶Ƶֱ the character deliriously asks his father, who was shot down over Korea in 1951. He was thrust into hosting the Emmys on the year he won one.

㽶ƵֱA part of me was still in host mode. I grabbed my Emmy and ran across the stage to my host podium. I put down my Emmy and looked out at the applauding audience for the first time. When I did, I gotta say, the applause grew louder and stayed that way for quite a bit longer than I expected,㽶Ƶֱ he writes.

Selleck bet on himself throughout his career, turning down a steady gig on 㽶ƵֱYoung and the Restless㽶Ƶֱ and showing up for work on the 1979 TV miniseries 㽶ƵֱThe Sacketts㽶Ƶֱ even though the director made a point of saying he didn㽶Ƶֱt want him.

㽶ƵֱI㽶Ƶֱm most proud that I, as a person, was willing to take risks. They didn㽶Ƶֱt always pay off, but many times they did,㽶Ƶֱ he says. 㽶ƵֱRisk is the price you pay for opportunity itself.㽶Ƶֱ

Portraits of other stars also make appearances, like Carol Burnett, Princess Diana and Frank Sinatra, whose last acting job was on 㽶ƵֱMagnum, P.I.㽶Ƶֱ and who showed off his temper as well as his acting chops while navigating a colostomy bag.

Fans of 㽶ƵֱBlue Bloods㽶Ƶֱ have to wait for the last few pages to discover that Selleck initially fought for it to be a character-driven show and not a procedural, as the pilot had been. He won and the show is in its 14th season. He writes 㽶ƵֱI can㽶Ƶֱt be that lucky twice.㽶Ƶֱ

Selleck writes that he approached his career as a bricklayer, making sure each role was done with the highest quality and then moving on to the next. If that meant pushing back on scripts or budgets, so be it.

㽶ƵֱJust showing up and getting a paycheck wasn㽶Ƶֱt my idea of the work,㽶Ƶֱ he says. 㽶ƵֱI tried to always do it in a businesslike way. You know, not throw tantrums and throw scripts against the wall.㽶Ƶֱ

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Mark Kennedy, The Associated Press





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