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㽶ƵֱSay hello㽶Ƶֱ: B.C. advocate teaches etiquette of interacting with the blind

㽶ƵֱLosing my sight hasn㽶Ƶֱt changed me, but it㽶Ƶֱs changed the way I interact with the world㽶Ƶֱ

A simple 㽶Ƶֱhello㽶Ƶֱ goes a long way in kicking off communication with someone whose sight is limited, says Gina Martin, who educates all generations through her Diverse Abilities Programs and Training.

The business is based in her Saanich home, but programming spans primary school classrooms to seniors㽶Ƶֱ homes across the south Island.

Martin, who is legally blind, is using her communication skills honed over nearly three decades as a server at Paul㽶Ƶֱs Motor Inn. The goal is to pave an easier path for others.

㽶ƵֱIt took me 23 years to accept my journey,㽶Ƶֱ said Martin, who began to lose her sight in 1993.

Facing different opportunities and abilities, no two people have the same experience and it comes down to the individual on how they navigate life.

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She herself did not want to use a cane or in any way draw attention to herself. She hit a turning point in 2015 when she met two confident women who had attended a comprehensive program at the Louisiana Center for the Blind. Inspired, she attended the nine-month program the next year.

㽶ƵֱIt was absolutely the hardest thing I did in my life,㽶Ƶֱ she said, noting it includes blindfolded rock climbing, white water rafting, bowling and more. But it has a high success rate, with 85 per cent of people who graduate meeting or exceeding expectations, she said.

Martin is among those successes 㽶Ƶֱ it taught her in part how to enjoy life differently than when she had her sight.

㽶ƵֱLosing my sight hasn㽶Ƶֱt changed me, but it㽶Ƶֱs changed the way I interact with the world,㽶Ƶֱ she said.

So she launched her business earlier this year. Martin teaches on apparent and non-apparent disabilities 㽶Ƶֱ noting nine of 10 are non-apparent 㽶Ƶֱ and universal design.

Hoping to change perspectives for both those with sight loss and without, her key message is communication.

She took that message to social media recently, hoping to end the silence of awkward interactions on the street or in shops.

The seven key points garnered an impressive response 㽶Ƶֱ shared more than 4,000 times, with more than 100 comments of appreciation.

Someone who is blind or partially sighted can often be recognized by a white cane, service dog or even sunglasses. While it㽶Ƶֱs important to not make assumptions on their level of sight, the smiles and nods that sighted folk offer and recognize on the street likely go unseen by someone with sight loss.

So say 㽶Ƶֱhello.㽶Ƶֱ

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㽶ƵֱIt㽶Ƶֱs one word that can make somebody feel included,㽶Ƶֱ Martin said. 㽶ƵֱPeople are quiet, they don㽶Ƶֱt know what to say. That㽶Ƶֱs not helpful for those of us who don㽶Ƶֱt see well. It can be unsettling.

So say hi. And if you know them, say their name, maybe offer yours and maybe a context of how they know you.

If it appears help might be needed, just ask: 㽶ƵֱCan I help?㽶Ƶֱ and if yes, 㽶ƵֱHow can I help?㽶Ƶֱ

Don㽶Ƶֱt be offended by a no.

In person, she also reiterates a few other messages that might seem as obvious as 㽶Ƶֱhello.㽶Ƶֱ

㽶ƵֱAlways talk to the person, and not the person they㽶Ƶֱre with,㽶Ƶֱ she said.

㽶ƵֱDon㽶Ƶֱt grab us. That㽶Ƶֱs a real thing.㽶Ƶֱ Instead of a shout or a grab, verbalize. 㽶ƵֱLady with the white cane, there㽶Ƶֱs a car on your right㽶Ƶֱ is far more informative, helpful and less terrifying.

Oh, and it㽶Ƶֱs OK to use the words see, look and watch in conversation.

㽶ƵֱWe see look and watch, just differently,㽶Ƶֱ Martin said, adding the example of 㽶Ƶֱseeing㽶Ƶֱ a pink rose through touch and smell. 㽶ƵֱI㽶Ƶֱm enjoying it differently.㽶Ƶֱ

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A simple 㽶Ƶֱhello㽶Ƶֱ goes a long way in kicking off communication with someone whose sight is limited says Gina Martin who educates the region through her Diverse Abilities business. (Christine van Reeuwyk/News Staff)


About the Author: Christine van Reeuwyk

Longtime journalist with the Greater Victoria news team.
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