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Men are over-represented in all of these statistics around being unhoused, drug abuse, alcohol abuse and suicide, said Carol Bilson, director of operations at the Anti-Violence Project.

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In 2022, of the more than 227 British Columbians who died of suicide, 184 were men. Additionally, there were 2,511 toxic drug deaths in 2023, and 71 per cent of those were men, according to the BC Centre for Disease Control.

While the feminist movement did wonders for feminism and what it meant to be a woman, said Bilson, a similar movement within men is needed but has yet to happen.

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This can mean having a more challenging time processing trauma, dealing with rejection and becoming violent towards either the person they were interested in or themselves.

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Suicide is the second or third leading cause of death for men aged 19 to 44 and for men aged 15 to 25. Outside of motor vehicle accidents, there is little else killing them, said John Oliffe, research chair in the Men香蕉视频直播檚 Health Research Program at UBC.

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Bilson said young men and boys are told to bury most of their emotions and are often left with two feelings 香蕉视频直播� anger and happiness.

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Bilson previously worked with abuse survivors and was compelled to start helping to heal men after listening to the women she had been counselling.

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Gender expectations, in general, are archaic, but expectations around masculinity have not been needed for a long time, Bilson said.

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More men are needed in caring professions like nursing, therapy and education, said Carl Haynes, Men香蕉视频直播檚 Education & Research Coordinator at the Anti-Violence Project.

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An increasing lack of male educators has also worried Haynes, as there is a lack of positive male role models for young men.

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In May, Our Place in Victoria surveyed the unhoused along Pandora Avenue.

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On the vulnerability index, when it comes to the unhoused, men are less likely to move into supportive housing, with the average age of a male on the street being 55.

When it comes to unhoused youth, about 63 per cent of young people in shelters are male.

The reasons why men and women are unhoused are complex, but generally, men are not running and hiding from abusive spouses. And men might find themselves on the street after a mental health concern or an injury.

There is a lot of shame around being unhoused, even for those who eventually find a house. Many men do not want to share their experiences for fear of being negatively judged, said McKinnon.

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It is up to men to help fix other men. Women have been doing the heavy lifting for too long, according to Bilson and is one of the driving forces behind a popular social media trend where women are choosing to find a metaphorical bear in the forest rather than date a man.

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