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She died in 1987, which means we香蕉视频直播檙e approaching four decades of Mother香蕉视频直播檚 Days without her. She was just 44 years old. Cancer.

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Thankfully, I香蕉视频直播檒l always have the memories.

The lessons she taught us will stick with us forever and formed the basis of what has been passed along to the grandchildren she never met, but I believe she sees every day.

If I was granted one wish, it would be that Mum could come back to hug her grandchildren, just once.

Now comes the annual part where I ask for your own memories.

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Last time out, I asked my sister Penny to get things started, and she delivered, bigtime. Again:

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I香蕉视频直播檒l never not tear up reading that.

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Shoot me an email (can be as long or short as you want), sharing your memories and thoughts. It香蕉视频直播檚 always a bittersweet time of year for me, but reading all of your memories never fails to make me smile.

PQB News/VI Free Daily editor Philip Wolf welcomes your questions, comments and local story ideas. He can be reached at 250-905-0019 or via email at philip.wolf@blackpress.ca.