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From the files of our never-ending quest to bubble-wrap our children, protecting them from all that is negative and scary, comes the latest tale of trying to make sure no one ever feels bad about anything.

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We seem determined to forget that (and not just in sport) a lot more these days.

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In any sport, I was always taught to play as hard as you could, all the time. If the result was too overwhelming for the other team, too bad.

If you did your best and still lost, that wasn香蕉视频直播檛 the end of the world either. I remember in school a visiting British rugby side came for an exhibition and beat us by about 70 points.

Did we wilt and cry and feel bad about ourselves? No. It made us realize just how much work had to be done to get better.

Our coach told us there was no shame in losing, to hold our heads up and keep working and maybe one day we香蕉视频直播檇 be that good.

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Life isn香蕉视频直播檛 always fair. There are winners and there are losers. Learning to deal with those situations at a young age isn香蕉视频直播檛 going to harm anyone. And even if you tell them you香蕉视频直播檙e not keeping score, many of them will be keeping it in their heads anyway.

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Get excited when you win, try to figure out what you can do better if you lose. Little kids whose team loses a blowout game won香蕉视频直播檛 be permanently scarred, they香蕉视频直播檒l still just want to go to Dairy Queen.

Trying to teach them it香蕉视频直播檚 not OK to excel or that changes will always be made to protect them from big losses might not always be the best course of action.

editor Philip Wolf can be reached at philip.wolf@blackpress.ca or follow him on and .