Life is often like a successful pot luck dinner. Toss in a large variety of components and a marvelous, entertaining potpourri is created.

That aptly describes last Sunday at the Hodge house.

For more than two decades I have hosted an annual September long weekend barbeque and as the years have rolled by the event has evolved and grown as well. The experience of hosting such an event has taught me a few valuable lessons about holding such gatherings:

First and foremost - keep things simple. The simpler the better.

Cover the basics and let the rest sort itself out because no matter how hard you plan or attempt to structure things, gatherings of humans take on their own energy.

If you have enough food and good music -little else matters.

On Sunday Tez and I found ourselves standing near the back of our weed infested yard quietly observing the plethora of happy folks mingling about and clearly enjoying themselves. It was a rewarding moment recognizing how many friends had made the effort to attend our annual party. We lost count at 104 people in the yard, jokingly suggesting that we had invited 100 of our closest friends.

We chuckled realizing that the only true common denominator regarding the throng before us was that everyone there knew either Tez or myself. Sitting back watching the extremely diverse collection of characters meet one another was better than any people watching opportunity elsewhere. And indeed it was a blended banquet of bodies. Amid the masses were musicians, artists, politicians, ministers, masons, hockey players, environmentalists, lawyers, doctors, dentists, teachers, street people, the list seems endless. We chuckled wishing we were flies on the wall of some of the initial meetings taking place around the yard.

As the day turned into night the gathering continued to grow and get to know one another and the frivolity continued to increase.

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Later in the evening as folks settled in to enjoy the many superb tunes being played I found a quiet corner for a moment and marvelled at the magic the day had cultivated. Then it dawned on me how my personal friendships with the crowd before me had interestingly unfolded. I realized that how I met, or what the various folks did for a living, was not so much how I had really come to know them - or how my relationships with various folks had changed.

For example I met singer/songwriter Keith Thom through the Anglican Church who wanted us to work together for a fund raiser. Keith was to help find entertainment and I was to help promote it. Eventually Keith wound up as the opening act for Valdy while I was master of ceremonies. Keith and I became instant friends because of the event and I actually began playing guitar again for fun with Keith. Keith became interested in my work as a City Councillor and was inspired to enter the political arena and today he is a member of Peachland Council.

Ryan Donn and I met through music, now we sit on City Council together. Maxine DeHart and I met as media folks with the Capital News and we now sit on council together as well.

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Former neighbours, Josh and Lindsay eventually accepted our barbecue invite a few years back and through Josh I became a Mason. On Sunday four other Mason brothers and their families were part of the gathering.

It dawned on me then how life unfolds as it will despite our plans or attempts to organize our world.

I realized that for whatever reason folks come together, and no matter what hat they wear at the time, connections and inspirations often evolve into wonderful opportunities or scenarios that we never could have originally imagined.

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A little music and some hot dogs never dampens the potential either.