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㽶ƵֱThis is our reality㽶Ƶֱ: Kelowna㽶Ƶֱs Red Dress Day brings awareness to violence against Indigenous women

A few hundred people walked the streets of downtown Kelowna wearing red on Friday, May 5

Warning: This story contains graphic descriptions and images that some may find disturbing

For Carol Archie, she has lived through the reality of Red Dress Day.

Archie is the niece 㽶Ƶֱ from her mom㽶Ƶֱs side 㽶Ƶֱ of a murdered Indigenous woman.

㽶ƵֱShe was brutally raped and murdered and the individuals that were responsible for her death, two of them were provided small fines and one was able to walk away free, none of them had jail time. This is our reality. We were born and raised with the mindset that we have to be aware of the dangers, not out in the wilderness, in community,㽶Ƶֱ said Archie, who spoke at Kelowna㽶Ƶֱs Red Dress Day march Friday (May 5).

While wearing red and holding signs, the group of hundreds marched from the friendship society on Leon Avenue before eventually ending up at the Kelowna Court House to bring awareness to Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls (MMIWG) and the ongoing violent epidemic throughout North America against Indigenous women and girls.

While Red Dress Day has been commemorated for more than a decade, Friday marked the first time the Ki-Low-Na Friendship Society held an event.

Indigenous people have been targets for years and Archie still sees that today.

㽶ƵֱI have the ability to be able to work for an employer that understands where I㽶Ƶֱm coming from because in this day and age, my youngest daughter was followed from my work to her school,㽶Ƶֱ said Archie, who has two daughters, 19 and 16. 㽶ƵֱI know to make certain I get to work extra early in the morning and my day ends when her day ends so that way I know I㽶Ƶֱm the one driving her home and I㽶Ƶֱm the one picking her up, because we are visitors on the Sylix traditional unceded territory so we don㽶Ƶֱt have a lot of family here.㽶Ƶֱ

Ki-Low-Na Friendship Society executive director Edna Terbasket said it warmed her heart to see the support Friday.

㽶ƵֱThe message is getting out there to many, many people,㽶Ƶֱ said Terbasket. 㽶ƵֱWe㽶Ƶֱve lived with it for a long time as Indigenous people and when I see a lot of the folks here that are from the mainstream, I go 㽶ƵֱWow, we㽶Ƶֱre getting our message out there.㽶Ƶֱ㽶Ƶֱ

Terbasket explained red is symbolic because it㽶Ƶֱs spiritual to Indigenous people. It also stands for the violence behind what㽶Ƶֱs been happening, at the same time representing love.

㽶ƵֱI think families talk more with their children about safety and even lifestyle and taking good care of themselves,㽶Ƶֱ said Terbasket. 㽶ƵֱIt㽶Ƶֱs not only Indigenous women and girls, it㽶Ƶֱs all peoples. I couldn㽶Ƶֱt imagine if I lost a sister or a niece or a granddaughter and she wasn㽶Ƶֱt found, I couldn㽶Ƶֱt imagine that. Is she alive? Is she okay? Has she been brutally assaulted or murdered?㽶Ƶֱ

Both Terbasket and Archie have seen tremendous growth and awareness, especially since the remains of 215 Indigenous residential school children were found in Kamloops almost two years ago.

㽶ƵֱWhat we are doing here today, we㽶Ƶֱre becoming stronger as a people, we are being more aware of who we are as a people and how we contribute to our families, communities, and nation,㽶Ƶֱ said Archie. 㽶ƵֱHaving this awareness across Canada and North America is huge for us, and it all started with residential school. That ripple effect comes into today and we㽶Ƶֱre answering back with our own ripple effects and it㽶Ƶֱs becoming more powerful.㽶Ƶֱ

And for more people who want to become aware, learn, and be a part of the solution, Terbasket and Archie say to ask questions and have open conversations.

㽶ƵֱWe all have to work together, collaborate together, heal together,㽶Ƶֱ said Terbasket.

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jordy.cunningham@kelownacapnews.com

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Jordy Cunningham

About the Author: Jordy Cunningham

Hailing from Ladner, B.C., I have been passionate about sports, especially baseball, since I was young. In 2018, I graduated from Thompson Rivers University in Kamloops with a Bachelor of Journalism degree
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