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㽶ƵֱTheir safety is important㽶Ƶֱ: Group checks on women, talks consent at Nelson bars

The Mama Bears of Baker Street have received Interior Health funding to patrol the party scene
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Meet the Mama Bears of Baker Street. L-R: Dan Nolan, Cat Spears and Skye Spears were on Nelson㽶Ƶֱs streets during St. Patrick㽶Ƶֱs Day celebrations to check on intoxicated women, provide supplies and chat about consent. Photo: Tyler Harper

It㽶Ƶֱs St. Patrick㽶Ƶֱs Day in Nelson and the party is well underway as a diminutive woman slips through a crowded bar.

Cat Spears approaches a tipsy women with a smile and supplies. How are they feeling? Do they want some juice or candy? Condoms or snort straws? Are they comfortable with who they might go home with?

Then she asks the question that brought her here: 㽶ƵֱWhat does consent mean to you?㽶Ƶֱ

㽶ƵֱIt means that both people are on the same page,㽶Ƶֱ responds one young woman, and Spears looks relieved by the simple but acceptable answer.

Spears, who works as a family support worker at Kootenay Kids, is in charge of a new Interior Health-backed group called Mama Bears of Baker Street. Once a month, on days when the city㽶Ƶֱs bars are likely to be busy, Spears and a handful of others dressed in pink walk Nelson㽶Ƶֱs streets checking on women.

Usually the interactions are brief. The volunteers carry snacks and various items like hand warmers, cup condoms and fentanyl test strips. Occasionally they ask if the woman feels safe going home with someone, or if they need a taxi called.

No one seems to mind, and Spears is always thanked for checking in. One man even fist bumps her. 㽶ƵֱYou㽶Ƶֱre a beautiful human being,㽶Ƶֱ he says.

Impromptu chats about consent 㽶Ƶֱ which 㽶Ƶֱa freely given enthusiastic yes, ongoing, continuously discussed, and can be taken away at any time㽶Ƶֱ 㽶Ƶֱ might interrupt the good times.

But Spears isn㽶Ƶֱt surprised by how educated and gracious people are, even when they are intoxicated.

㽶ƵֱNelson㽶Ƶֱs known for being such like a drunk festival little town, but it㽶Ƶֱs also known for the harm reduction, and that demographic of some really strong, vocal people. Nobody was really blown away, really shocked that we were out there.㽶Ƶֱ

Spears calls consent her passion. For over a decade she has been a consent ambassador at Shambhala Music Festival, runs classes teaching consent at Kootenay Kids, and perhaps once a year advises women who say they㽶Ƶֱve been drugged and sexually assaulted at a Nelson bar.

There㽶Ƶֱs need for her work. A study released last year by the Canadian Women㽶Ƶֱs Foundation found in sexual activity. Police-reported sexual assaults in Canada also rose by 18 per cent in 2021, according to Statistics Canada.

Despite her efforts, Spears wondered if there might be something more she could do. Maybe, she decided, she could start checking on women before they run into problems.

㽶ƵֱI could take it even a step further and be out there saying, 㽶ƵֱHey, you㽶Ƶֱre walking a little bit wobbly there. Where are you going? Who are you going with? Do you need a cab? Are you leaving?㽶Ƶֱ㽶Ƶֱ

She considered New Year㽶Ƶֱs Eve, and decided she would go out on her own. Three local bars gave prior approval to visit, and from 10 p.m. to last call Spears and a few others spent the night making sure women were safe.

The night was a success, and earlier this year Interior Health provided $5,000 in funding that Spears uses on supplies and a small stipend to volunteers.

The Mama Bears of Baker Street aren㽶Ƶֱt the first such group to take consent education into bars. Good Night Out Vancouver, a non-profit society, leads sexual violence prevention with festivals and bars.

But Spears㽶Ƶֱ group is new to Nelson㽶Ƶֱs night life, and hard to miss with their pink bandannas and the word consent in bold on their backpacks. She hopes they become ubiquitous, and welcomed, by the city㽶Ƶֱs bars and patrons.

㽶ƵֱI want women to know that their safety is important.㽶Ƶֱ

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Tyler Harper

About the Author: Tyler Harper

I㽶Ƶֱm editor-reporter at the Nelson Star, where I㽶Ƶֱve worked since 2015.
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