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Vernon香蕉视频直播檚 Lisa Marshall would love to know who her dad is and say hello 香蕉视频直播 if he香蕉视频直播檚 alive
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Her 47th birthday recently came and went, and, for Lisa Marshall, there was no phone call, no card, no present, no hug from her birth father.

Just like the previous 46 birthdays.

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For more than 25 years, Marshall has been searching for her birth parents. She香蕉视频直播檚 known since she was young she was adopted. Her adoptive parents had five boys and kept trying for a girl, so they adopted Marshall.

She found her birth mother, a woman named Sharon Bolen, 21 years ago. And Bolen was not at all thrilled to learn Marshall香蕉视频直播檚 adoptive parents had helped by pulling a ruse.

香蕉视频直播淪he phoned me at 6:30 a.m. from North Carolina and she was not too happy,香蕉视频直播 said Marshall. 香蕉视频直播淢y parents had found her using a lie, saying they香蕉视频直播檇 known her when she lived in Vancouver and wanted to know where she was.香蕉视频直播

They talked for about 45 minutes. Marshall let Bolen yell at her and get mad at her for the way she found her, which Marshall says she 香蕉视频直播渃ompletely understands.香蕉视频直播 Bolen asked what kind of information Marshall was looking for. Marshall was specific: she wanted the name of her birth dad.

Bolen never told her.

香蕉视频直播淚 tried to ask as many questions as I could,香蕉视频直播 said Marshall. 香蕉视频直播淕ive me a little medical information about the family. She wouldn香蕉视频直播檛 tell me who my father was. I asked, she just said no.

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Through her research, Marshall has been able to ascertain that Sharon likely got pregnant in Regina and moved to Vancouver to live with a sister (Marshall was born in Grace Hospital in Vancouver). Marshall made contact with the sister and, like Sharon, Marshall said she香蕉视频直播檚 not happy she made contact with the family.

Marshall believes her dad was about 30 at the time, which 香蕉视频直播 if he is still alive 香蕉视频直播 would make him 76 or 77.

Marshall never talked with Bolen again. It was through Facebook that she discovered her birth mom had a profile page and when clicking on that page, Marshall discovered she had died.

She also discovered she had a sister, Nicole, who lives in North Carolina, and a brother, Chris, who lives in Europe. The trio are planning to meet at family events this year in Saskatchewan and North Carolina.

Marshall is the oldest of the three siblings and said Nicole told her they share the same father.

香蕉视频直播淪he has been amazing since we made contact,香蕉视频直播 said Marshall, who spends a couple of hours each night on her laptop researching. She has built a family tree but is missing the branch that would lead to her birth father.

香蕉视频直播淚香蕉视频直播檇 love to meet him and talk to him or any of his relatives, sons, daughters, cousins,香蕉视频直播 she said. 香蕉视频直播淚 put it off for the last 21 years thinking Sharon would come around and give me information. She never did.香蕉视频直播

Her family is completely behind her goal to find her dad.

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She has done DNA testing and regularly checks ancestry.ca but is hopeful somebody may read her story and suggest another way to try and track down her birth father.

Anybody with suggestions can e-mail Marshall at lisamarshall5@shaw.ca.



Roger Knox

About the Author: Roger Knox

I am a journalist with more than 30 years of experience in the industry. I started my career in radio and have spent the last 21 years working with Black Press Media.
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