Beijia Ge香蕉视频直播檚 work duties change on an hourly basis.
The Kingston, Ont., resident might be chatting with Chinese students about their secrets and challenges, or helping someone pack a suitcase, or baking cakes with a senior citizen.
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Ge, 38, is part of Canada香蕉视频直播檚 companionship industry that is growing among the Chinese diaspora.
Dozens of people are offering rent-a-friend services on Xiaohongshu, a social media platform also known as Little Red Book or China香蕉视频直播檚 Instagram, in cities including Vancouver, Calgary and Toronto.
Sociologists and other experts suggest the phenomenon of paid companionship is due in part to a sense of isolation among some new immigrants.
Ge charges about $20 an hour. She香蕉视频直播檚 not a professional therapist, but she香蕉视频直播檚 surprised how easily clients open up and share their vulnerabilities with her.
香蕉视频直播淥ne of the students felt helpless since her parents forced her to pursue a major she hates, she didn香蕉视频直播檛 do well at school and she felt scared to let her parents know about her struggles,香蕉视频直播 said Ge in an interview in Mandarin.
She added that some conversations with her clients left very emotional.
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Qian Liu, an assistant professor in the department of sociology at the University of Calgary, said the companionship economy has been an emerging trend in China, associated with isolation and loneliness in its cities, as well as social stigmas attached to mental health in East Asia.
Liu said Chinese immigrants 香蕉视频直播渉eavily rely香蕉视频直播 on Chinese social media for information, so it香蕉视频直播檚 not surprising the same social phenomenon is emerging in diaspora communities.
Liu said 香蕉视频直播渓oneliness, isolation, and the lack of a sense of belonging香蕉视频直播 are key issues in her research with Chinese-speaking immigrants.
But other factors could be high living costs in Canadian cities, encouraging Chinese immigrants to get creative about making money, while some may see it 香蕉视频直播渁s a way to be connected with their communities.香蕉视频直播
Zed Zhipeng Gao, an assistant professor of psychology at the American University of Paris, said most people who use companionship services are new immigrants who don香蕉视频直播檛 have an existing social network in Canada, and linguistic or cultural barriers can make their lives difficult.
Gao, who lived in Toronto for two years and Vancouver for 12,said in Asian culture, seeking counselling for mental health was associated with social stigma. Companionship services could be filling the gap, he said.
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Carolina Hu, 37, from Richmond, B.C., has been providing companionship services for several months.
She says she香蕉视频直播檚 frequently hired by Chinese-speaking newcomers to explore Richmond and Vancouver to get a taste of living in Canada.
Most recently, she has been hired as a shopping buddy.
Hu, who charges about $40 per hour, said newcomers can feel hesitant about exploring their cities due to the language barrier, and companionship services 香蕉视频直播渉elp them have a smooth transition to the local society.香蕉视频直播
香蕉视频直播淢any newcomers didn香蕉视频直播檛 know where to find their community, but spending time with them to walk around their neighborhood and share my immigration journey with them can bring them a sense of belonging and comfort,香蕉视频直播 Hu said in Mandarin.
The mother of two sons said she loves her part-time job because of it is a flexible schedule.
香蕉视频直播淢any immigrants feel a sense of emptiness after moving to a new country, and they feel very lonely,香蕉视频直播 said Hu, 香蕉视频直播淚t香蕉视频直播檚 also difficult for them to share struggles with their old friends back in their hometown.香蕉视频直播
Liu said this was another factor in the appeal of paid companionship 香蕉视频直播 some immigrants feel reluctant to complain to family and friends in home countries who think they are 香蕉视频直播渉aving great lives in Canada.香蕉视频直播
香蕉视频直播淚n a sense, this could be about saving face,香蕉视频直播 said Liu, 香蕉视频直播淚n other words, it does not necessarily mean that they trust strangers more than close friends and family members.香蕉视频直播
Sharing secrets and struggles with people outside their network may not have as much impact on their everyday lives and reputations, said Liu.
David Li, 24, is new to the companionship industry. Unlike Ge and Hu, he offers only one service 香蕉视频直播 Li accompanies people on hikes.
香蕉视频直播淧ersonal introduction: I am a Leo man, I am five-feet and 10-inches tall and my weight is 85 kilograms. I hold a field leader hike certification, and I have been to Golden Ears, Tricouni Peak, Mount MacFarlane, and many other famous hiking spots in B.C.,香蕉视频直播 his social media ads read.
He offers to help carry a backpack during hikes, but 香蕉视频直播減lease don香蕉视频直播檛 make it ridiculously heavy.香蕉视频直播
Li, from Richmond, B.C., has a full-time job with a company that builds medical gas pipeline systems. In his spare time, he charges about $400 for eight hours of hiking.
He wants to be more than just a paid guide though. Li said he wants to find friends to explore nature.
香蕉视频直播淚 believe going on a hike with like-minded people is good for mental health,香蕉视频直播 Li said in an interview in Mandarin. 香蕉视频直播淚f clients feel a bit emotional and lonely, I hope they can feel more uplifted through my company.香蕉视频直播
As the companionship industry grows, safety issues and other concerns are emerging.
Ge said she only accepts female clients for security reasons, while Hu said she only welcomes female and family clients. Both avoid going out at night.
Li said many 香蕉视频直播渟cammers香蕉视频直播 had reached out to him via his ads.
One person who spoke to The Canadian Press about their companionship services declined to be named 香蕉视频直播 because they worried about being flagged by the Canada Revenue Agency for being paid under the table.
Gao, at American University, said he could see the 香蕉视频直播渧ersatile香蕉视频直播 companionship industry meets many diverse needs, but he worries about the safety of those who offer the services.
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He said companionship services can香蕉视频直播檛 solve societal problems with loneliness, and ideally the government would provide more supportive programs for immigrants, such as launching more associations and clubs.
Liu agreed, saying her ongoing research had found many Mandarin-speaking immigrants in Alberta went to a church to find people who shared cultural roots with them 香蕉视频直播 sometimes 香蕉视频直播渘ot for religious purposes but for a sense of community and support.香蕉视频直播
香蕉视频直播淭he thing about going to church is that there is very limited support for Chinese immigrants, especially newcomers, in Canadian society in general.香蕉视频直播 said Liu, 香蕉视频直播淭hat香蕉视频直播檚 why they must find support and sense of belonging that way.香蕉视频直播
Ge said that among all the types of companionship she offered, the most enjoyable was spending time with seniors, since 香蕉视频直播渋t香蕉视频直播檚 so easy to make them smile香蕉视频直播 and 香蕉视频直播渢hey always speak simple words of wisdom.香蕉视频直播
Mostly, she香蕉视频直播檚 paid by their relatives.
香蕉视频直播淚 have also accompanied some seniors to go to their dentists香蕉视频直播 appointments since their children are busy and the seniors don香蕉视频直播檛 speak English,香蕉视频直播 said Ge.
But often Ge simply listens to their stories about their lives, or neighbourhood gossip. Sometimes they just watch TV together.
Ge has racked up hundreds of hours of paid companionship with strangers since launching her business in March.
But soon she香蕉视频直播檒l be putting it on hold to head back to China, to spend more time with her own 83-year-old grandmother. They already spend hours on video calls every day, but time together in person is different, said Ge.
香蕉视频直播淪ometimes you settle down in a place for someone you care about. For me, the most important person in the world is my grandmother, and now I just want to spend time with her,香蕉视频直播 said Ge.