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For over a decade, Coulthard and her family have been providing home care to individuals with diverse abilities in Kelowna, through a service called Home Sharing.
Working through, a Kelowna not-for-profit society, Coulthard is one of a number of home share providers who香蕉视频直播檚 incredible generosity of spirit is helping individuals with diverse abilities live more fulfilling and independent lives.
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After putting her name forward as a potential Home Share care provider, Coulthard soon found herself sharing her family home with an individual with diverse abilities.
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"One of the individuals I supported lived in a group home. She suffered from nervousness and anxiety. When she left a group home environment and came to live with me, she became less anxious.
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And while, when asked, home share providers will agree that the rewards outweigh the sacrifices, Coulthard reminds those considering opening their homes to a home sharing commitment to diligently research the pros and cons first.
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When asked what it takes to be a good home share provider, Coulthard says understanding and utilizing the concept of inclusiveness, assertiveness and self-care are essential skills. "Plus, a strong personal network of support for you and everyone in your household. In the end, I香蕉视频直播檇 say the two most important qualities needed are patience and a good sense of humour.香蕉视频直播�
As our community continues to grow there is always a growing need for community members to open their homes to individuals with diverse abilities looking to gain greater independence and live more independent lives in a safe, caring and encouraging environment.
If you香蕉视频直播檇 be interested in considering providing home share care for an individual with diverse abilities, contact the Pathways Abilities Society at 250-763-2602.
