Kara Warren香蕉视频直播檚 older brother had a big personality. Trent Edward Gibney was an amazing storyteller who could captivate any audience with his embellished tales. He was artistic, he loved to write poetry and cook. And he was a passionate individual who loved animals, especially cats.

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But it did come as a shock when he took his own life on Sept. 8, 2021, at the age of 38.

To honour his life on the anniversary of his death, Warren香蕉视频直播檚 family put together four boxes filled with treats and toys for both cats and dogs and placed them in parks in both Maple Ridge and Mission for animal owners to take what they wanted. They called it Day of Kindness. But what they really want to do is spark a bigger conversation about mental health for Suicide Awareness Month, which falls in September.

Gibney left behind five siblings, including Warren, who was the youngest of the bunch. Gibney never had a straightforward go of things, said Warren. When they were children, he was the one the school was always calling their parents about. He was dealing with mental health issues his whole life.

When he was an adult, it seemed, he could never catch a break, said Warren. He was continuously getting knocked down 香蕉视频直播� he lost his job a couple of years before his passing when he fell at work breaking both his feet, landing him in a wheelchair.

Then the COVID-19 pandemic hit and he was dealing with isolation and a financial pinch. He was constantly playing catch-up with his mounting bills.

However, at the time when he took his life, his life seemed to be pulling together. He had just finished his electrical apprenticeship and had gone out a week or two prior to his death to celebrate. He already had a job and things were looking good, said Warren.

He had plans to go out with his mother the afternoon of Sept. 8, but when she arrived at his Albion home to pick him up he had already passed away.

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Although Gibney had attempted to take his own life as a teenager, he was never diagnosed with any mental health issues. There were also times when his friends and family were worried about him and asked him to seek help, but his concern would be that he would lose his job.

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Warren explained that if a person is admitted to the psych ward, they might be there for a couple of weeks. When they are finally discharged they find themselves back in the same environment 香蕉视频直播� only further behind with bill payments, and the situation becomes more desperate.

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Warren and her family also want to address the stigma people face when it comes to addressing their mental health. Warren, a clinical counsellor in the community, sees the stigma all the time with her patients, who worry that somebody will see them go into her office.

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Even after his death, Warren and her family agreed they would not be secretive about the way he died and wanted to be open about the fact that it was suicide.

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But, she said, coworkers, neighbours, and sometimes even their closest friends would avoid them because they didn香蕉视频直播檛 want to talk about it.

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Warren and her family want to talk. They want to inspire others to talk. And that is what they managed to do with the Day of Kindness. People, who discovered the boxes 香蕉视频直播� one at Horseman香蕉视频直播檚 Park along 224 Street, one at the Albion dog park behind Planet Ice, another along a walking trail by Kanaka Creek, and another at a dog park in Mission 香蕉视频直播� used the hashtag #treatsfromtrent to have a conversation.

Warren and her family were touched by how much their Day of Kindness resonated with people.

One person reached out to Warren to tell her they they have been struggling with mental health for three decades and how they chose a fridge magnet from the box of goodies.

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Others, who knew Gibney, shared how kind and special he was.

Stigma attached to mental health, said Warren, is the most immediate and tangible issue that needs addressing.

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Ryan Groening shared online that he struggles at times with injuries he sustained at work. He said he has been to psychiatric wards and sought help for his depression and stress. Talking to people helps, he noted. He introduced Melody, a dog rescued from Thailand, saying that she is part of his war on depression.

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For information about resources and supports on suicide prevention or to find a 24 hour crisis centre go to .

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