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As of Wednesday, people with dementia in Quebec are allowed to make advance requests for MAID, before they lose the capacity to provide informed consent. But such requests are still illegal under the Criminal Code.
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The federal government has said it still needs to do more consultations, which will start in November, before making a decision about advance MAID requests in the rest of the country.
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But it香蕉视频直播檚 important to make sure patients also have the option to receive dementia-specific, comprehensive palliative care that would provide the best quality of life possible, she said.
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In signing an advance request for MAID, patients would need to communicate multiple specific circumstances that would have to happen in order for them to have MAID in the future, such as not being able to recognize family members and being unable to communicate.
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Dr. Samir Sinha, geriatrician and clinician scientist with Sinai Health System and University Health Network in Toronto, said it香蕉视频直播檚 critical to have a family member or friend to serve as an advocate to ensure their loved one香蕉视频直播檚 wishes are carried out in the spirit they were intended.
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Among the several conditions that have to be met in order for a person to obtain medical assistance in dying following an advance request in Quebec is that the person is 香蕉视频直播渆xhibiting, on a recurring basis, the clinical manifestations related to their illness and described in their request,香蕉视频直播 and that a physician or specialized nurse practitioner has cause to believe 香蕉视频直播渢he person is experiencing enduring and unbearable physical or psychological suffering,香蕉视频直播 the province香蕉视频直播檚 website says.
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Having MAID as an option for when they deteriorate can actually provide reassurance and removes a worry that allows some people with dementia to live their lives as well as possible, Barrick said.