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Chatting with many of his fellow residents, Milton learned about their varied life experiences, challenges and joys later in life.

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As good wine grows more mellow with age, and more tasty, platinum is more valuable than gold, and while also softer and more malleable, is more easily damaged.

Well Aged the book is available . To further explore some of these key issues discussed in the book, Milton has also launched the .