Valorie Mann and her husband Derril created a beautiful life for their family.
Raising a close-knit family of five kids, it has grown to now encompass 10 grandchildren, 10 great-grandchildren and step-grandchildren.
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Daughter Laurie Carr said she was taken aback a little by the walk honour extended to her mom, but acknowledged the family presence in her mom香蕉视频直播檚 life through support programs offered by the Kelowna branch of the Alzheimer Society of B.C. caught their attention.
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Mann grew up in Vernon and after high school she applied her interest in mechanics to a career in the Canadian Armed Force, becoming an instrument technician.
Her career was short, however, as she fell in love with fellow instrument tech and eventual husband Derril.
Mann became a dedicated stay-at-home mom, and after the kids had grown up and left home, became a caregiver for her husband, who was afflicted with heart disease.
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Derril was learning to care for the both of them for the first time, a responsibility he took on with positivity, enthusiasm and love.
He accessed dementia education offered by the Alzheimer Society of B.C., and despite all the challenges of this period, exacerbated by the COVID pandemic, the couple continued to manage well on their own.
Derril was determined to be a good primary care provider asking for little help from his kids until he died in the spring of 2023.
Within a short time-frame of losing her husband, Mann sold her house and was moved into a long-term care home, with the ongoing support of her children 香蕉视频直播 daughters Laurie and Shelley Hyde, and sons Brian and Mike Mann.
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The local Lions Clubs will also host a BBQ by donation.
Entertainment will also be provided by Kelowna jazz vocalist Anna Jacyszyn.
For more information on how to register as a participant, either as an individual or part of a team, or to make a donation, check out walkforalzheimers.ca for more information.
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